What is Interpersonal Neurobiology used for?

IPNB or Interpersonal Neurobiology is the brainchild of Allan Schore and Dan Siegel. The concept of IPNB is based on the foundation of continuous growth of the brain. The technique of IPNB is used to stimulate the brain with positive and powerful persuasion to heal trauma. According to a recently published book called interpersonal neurobiology of play, this conceptcan help transform conditions which were once known to be permanent. Essentially... Read More

Understanding the Application & Importance of Interpersonal Neurobiology

If ever there was a way to understand how our brain’s physical features & chemical interactions with the surrounding environment and emotions wouldn’t you want to learn more about it? Whether you wish to be trained in a rather chemical/biological direction or more of a sociological/psychological direction, there is an interdisciplinary aspect that can help you work out the human relationships and interactions. This aspect is known as... Read More

Free Giveaway

Please see the free ebook:   4 Dating Tips How to Spot Lower Levels of Brain Integration  Read More

New Website Dedicated to Sexual Interaction

Soooooooo, I finally registered “RedLightHeidi.com” with google and am making it official!   Eyebrows raise when I mention that I have “another” website called “RedLightHeidi” in addition to GreenLight.  Really the second website came out of my interests in Sex and Relationships category on this website.  I wanted a website where I could post on interesting topics specifically related to sexual wellness.... Read More

Sex Questions? Chronic Illness? Great resource

This website has TONS of answers about anything you might want to know on sex…but I begin with linking to a sex question from someone with a chronic illness: http://www.sexualhealth.com/my-wifes-fibromyalgia-means-we-never-have-sex-what-can-we-do-to-solve-this-problem_question_235/    Read More

Discussing Your Sexual Health with a Doctor, Great Short video

Great five minute video about how YOU should and shouldn’t feel going to a doctor and asking about your sexual health:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvmb9eUu0p4&feature=share   photo credit to truthout.org  Read More

6 min video-how to attract boyfriend/girlfriend you want

I think what he says applies to both men and women. The most important take away for me is that people will mirror how you behave and set your standards.  So decide what you want and go for it, whatever that is!   http://postmasculine.com/video-how-should-a-girl-look-for-a-boyfriend  Read More

Research Says Have More Sex–1 minute video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvnIVykP2Wc&feature=youtu.be   This video shows you the research that shows some of the many positive effects of having sex.  Read More

Do You Have Any Family Relationship “Cut-offs”?

I want to mention a book that I read called “Extraordinary Relationships: A New Way of Thinking About Human Interactions” by Roberta M. Gilbert, M.D. Chapter six in particular discusses cut-offs which was FASCINATING to me.  Apparently research confirms that when individuals have cut-off from primary family that all relationships in their present day life suffer.  As a counselor, I really have thought about this concept for myself and... Read More

Reality vs the Erotic

“So I think that the unknown is inherent to desire. But faced with the unknown, people can have a few responses: you can stay open to it and welcome the persistent mystery of your partner or you can respond with anxiety. And for me, the question is the issue of certainty. You know, I think love is never certain. It is inherent that the potential of loss is part of love. And if you want to pretend to create an illusion of certainty then you will... Read More